Rabbi Cohen’s Message
Where Are You?
Several decades ago, I had my bar mitzvah, my coming-of-age ritual, in a northwest London synagogue. I will never forget that day, not just for the traditional elements but also for some more of the quirky ones:
The banquet hall, where I had my celebration lunch, was condemned to be demolished a few weeks later.
At that celebration lunch, I was still so self-centered at that age that I thought the enormous, elaborate potted plant my parents brought out was for me instead of my grandmother!
I distinctly remember looking out at the congregation as I led prayers and seeing one of my friends trying to place a skullcap on his head. He had spiky hair, and the skullcap kept falling off, and I wanted to laugh, but I had to concentrate.
Aside from all those strange memories, it was hard to forget the section from the Hebrew Bible that I chanted. Namely, the story of Adam and Eve being tempted by the serpent in the garden of Eden. For me, the most dramatic part of the story is when God, knowing full well what Adam has done, asks Adam, “Where are you?” in Hebrew, ayeka? In its simplest form, this word is an inquiry about location, but the Jewish sages took things further.
This question, “Where are you?” as we get closer to the Jewish New Year and the high holidays, a time of deep introspection, is taken to mean where are you in the sense of, “Where is your essence? Is there a way that you can get back to the ideal version of yourself? What part of your essential soul have you lost in the past year that you would like to regain and refocus on?”
If we translate these high-level questions into more practical terms, we might ask, “If we had more hours in the day. How would we spend our time? If there was wisdom we had accumulated in previous years that should have guided us. Still, we had forgotten that. What was that wisdom? Are there people in our lives who make us feel whole again when we connect or reconnect with them? Are there moments or episodes during the past year where we didn’t live up to our ideals, and is there a way we can fix that?”
I’ll never forget my bar mitzvah for different reasons, but more recently, I realized that the beginning of our holy book contains within it this beautiful question that we should always ask ourselves at this time of year, and with the question that the Source Of All Life asked the first humans in paradise, namely, “Ayeka, where are you?”
L’shalom/To Peace
We are excited to celebrate the High Holy Days with you all! Please visit the HHD page to read about all the services and register.
This year’s Book of Remembrance will be online. You can view, add, or change names on your account.
May their memory be a blessing.
Help Fight Hunger in Southern Arizona this Holiday Season. Starting the first week in September, you can drop off individual items or pick up a bag from the office to fill with items for Project Isaiah. Please have your filled bags or individual items turned in by Mon, Oct 9. Thank you!
Summer Send-Off at the Tucson J
Say l’hitraot (see you later) summer and bring in the New Year with community. Enjoy a fruit parfait (kosher, dairy, and vegan options), games + activities for kids of all ages, inflatables, face painting, and crafts. This event is designed for families with children ages 4-10. Free and open to the public. Register HERE.
Humans of Kol Ami
We hope you enjoyed our first Humans of Kol Ami experience with Amy Krauss! We have many more to come including at High Holidays. Soon you will see images and stories on the walls of Kol Ami, and we hope you take the time to read and learn more about our diverse congregation.
Thank you to our Shabbat greeters in August:
8-4 Hedda Levin
8-11 Charlotte Hegwer
8-18 Hedda Levin, Janet Kenigsberg
8-25 Charlotte Hegwer, Sherry Wallace
Welcome New Kol Ami Members in Aug 2023!
Nancy & Michael Apsell, Carey & Megan Belen, Joan & Barry Beroth, Ana Marie Bynes, Mike Comins & Jody Porter, Hedy Feuer & Michael Perlman, Howe Gelb, Dana & Adam Goldstein, Martin & Roberta Green, Jordan Kominsky, Sharon Liebeskind, Marilyn Lobell, Nancy Roberts & Garry Segerman, Sandra Rollin, Naomi Sack & Steven Basile, Andrea & Stuart Shatken, Desirai & Eric Svetcov, Julie Trujillo, Robert Wardy, and Jaime & Christian Yoder!
Special Shabbat Services This Month:
Sept 1 at 5:30 pm Shabbat Dinner:
Everyone is invited to join us for dinner before our Shabbat Services. Pizza and fruit will be served. Children under 4 are free. Register for dinner HERE.
Sept 1 at 6:30 pm Shabbat Light Services:
This service is geared towards people of all ages and includes music by the Kol Ami band and our fabulous teen singers!
Sept 1 at 6:30 pm Shabbat Alternative Services:
This lay-led service is more traditional in nature, located in Schlanger Chapel.
Sept 9 at 10 am Shabbat Morning Service (Masked):
*This service will run at the same time as regular Shabbat services.* This service is a safe space for people taking precautions for COVID and a way of taking care of all our community including the high-risk, elderly, and disabled. Led by Rabbi Cohen, all participants, including the Rabbi, will be in masks. Located in the Schlanger Chapel.
Upcoming September Events
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Shabbat Dinner and Services
Fri, Sept 1, Dinner at 5:30 pm, Services at 6:30 pm
Everyone is invited to join us for dinner before our Shabbat Services. Pizza and fruit will be served. Children under 4 are free.
Shabbat Light Services: This service is geared towards people of all ages and includes music by the Kol Ami band and our fabulous teen singers!
Shabbat Alternative Services: This lay-led service is more traditional in nature
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Shabbat Services Including theBat Mitzvah of Lily Rubin
Sat, Sept 2, 10 am
Lily Rubin is the daughter of Marla Harris and Jared Rubin. She recently turned 13 and started 8th grade at Orange Grove Middle School. She likes to stay active and have fun.
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The Future of Justice: Israel's Judicial Reform Panel Discussion
Wed, Sept 6, 6:30 pm at Tucson J
This disucssion will be dynamic and engaging, bringing together a panel of thought leaders to explore the proposed judicial reform in Israel.
This event is a partnership between: Kol Ami, The Arizona Center for Judaic Studies, The Weintraub Israel Center which is a partnership between the Tucson J and Jewish Philanthropies of Southern Arizona.
Prof. David Graizbord (moderator)- UA Judaic Studies
Prof. Anat Balint- Jeffrey B. Plevan Chair in Israel Studies
Prof. Leonard Hammer- Director of Outreach and Program Development for Human Rights Practice, Judaic Practice
Prof. Gil Ribak- UA Judaic Studies
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Welcome to the World of Jewish Mysticism
Thurs, Sept 7, 11:45 am
Join Rabbi Sandy Seltzer on a journey through the Book of Splendor, the Crown Jewel of Jewish Mysticism - the Zohar.
The Zohar explores everything from the structure of the Universe to the particulars of palm reading. Through his engaging teaching style Rabbi Seltzer shares his deep knowledge and curiosity about Jewish tradition, mysticism, philosophy and literature as we move through this intricate commentary and guide to all things big and small.
In this exploration of Jewish mysticism, we use the Pritzker edition of the Zohar, an English translation. No prior knowledge is necessary.
This course will be taught on Zoom only, every Thursday from 11:45 am-1:00 pm starting Sept 7 thru April 11.
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Shabbat Services (Masked)
Sat, Sept 9, 10:30 am located in the Schlanger Chapel
*This service is held at the same time as the regular Shabbat service.*
This service is a safe space for people taking precautions for COVID and a way of taking care of all our community including the high risk, elderly, and disabled. Led by Rabbi Cohen, all participants, including the Rabbi, will be in masks.
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S'lichot
Sat, Sept 9, 7:30 pm
The month of Elul culminates with S'lichot ("forgiveness") services, when we gather to recite special prayers of penitence that include beautiful Hebrew poetry. This moving service urges us to reflect on the year that is ending. Cantor Janece Cohen and Erev Cantor Sarah Bollt will introduce the haunting melodies of the High Holy Days, as we utter our first confession of the season. This experience will also include learning with Rabbi Malcolm Cohen for New Year Inspiration.
7:30 pm Study Session, followed by Havdalah & dessert
9:00 pm Changing the Torah Mantles & S'lichot Service
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Born to Run (age 50-69)
Join the Born to Run (ages 40-65) group for brunch and bowling!
12 pm: First Watch for brunch
5055 N. Oracle Road 85704
1:30-3:30 pm: Bowling at Fiesta Lanes
501 W. River Road 85704
$19/person including shoes
Only a couple of spots are left in the group reservation, but feel free to come and get your own lane/s, too!
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Southern Arizona Jewish Genealogy Society
Sun, Sept 10, 1 pm, Katz Library
We will have a talk on "Record Keeping" by Hal Hegwer as well as a "Big Announcement" Please don't miss it!
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Kever Avot
Sun, Sept 10, 1 pm and 4 pm
These services are designed for us to reconnect with loved ones at the various Kol AMi cemetery sites at this important time of year leading up to Rosh Hashanah. For those whose loved ones are buried away from Tucson, these services still provide an opportunity to memorialize them.
Evergreen Chapel with Rabbi Malcolm Cohen and Erev Cantor Sarah Bollt.
Shaarei Shalom with Cantor Cohen
Nogales Cemetery with Cantorial Soloist Emerita Marjorie Hochberg
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WKA Girls Night Out
Wed, Sept 13, 6pm at Gaslight Theatre
Join WKA for a magical night at the Gaslight Theater to watch their hilarious spoof of Harry Potter, "Henry Porter and the Sorcerers' Secret." Doors to the performance will open at 6:00 pm for a non-host dinner. Register below to reserve your spot by September 5th before your chance disappears. The $22 payment will be collected at the door.
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Erev Rosh Hashanah
Fri, Sept 15, 7:30 pm
Led by Rabbi Malcolm Cohen, Cantor Janece Cohen, Erev Cantor Sarah Bollt, and the Kol Ami Adult Choir.
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Rosh Hashanah
Sat, Sept 16, 8:30 am-7:30 pm
Welcome to the High Holy Days at Kol Ami. We are so excited to see you and energized by the opportunity that these holidays give all of us to reflect and renew. This is our moment to continue building community, deepening our relationships, and expanding our experience.
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Bereavement Support Group
Tue, Sept 19, 11 am
Join us as we support one another during loss. A light nosh will be provided, please RSVP.
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Men of Kol Ami Discussion Group
Wed, Sept 20, 5:30 pm
Join us for our monthly discussion group with drinks and appetizers. For more information contact Steve sacaine18@gmail.com
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Making Lunches for Our Houseless Community
Sat, Sept 23, 11:30 am
Please meet us at the Kol Ami kitchen to make sack lunches for our houseless community.
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Wandering Jews Hiking and Happy Hour
Sat, Sept 23, 6 pm at Sabino Visitor Center
We will go take a short hike to the dam and back. Then we can head over to Three Canyons Brewery for a beer and/or some food.
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Kol Nidre
Sun, Sept 24 7:30 pm
Led by Rabbi Cohen, Cantor Cohen, Erev Bollt, and the Kol Ami Choir. This beautifully solemn service opens Yom Kippur with the central Kol Nidre prayer, showing remorse for unfulfilled promises over the past year.
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Yom Kippur
Mon, Sept 25, 8:30 am-6:30 pm
Welcome to the High Holy Days at Kol Ami. We are so excited to see you and energized by the opportunity that these holidays give all of us to reflect and renew. This is our moment to continue building community, deepening our relationships, and expanding our experience.
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Wet Wednesday
Wed, Sept 27, 5:30 pm Trident Grill II 2910 N Swan
MoKA invite all men of Kol Ami to join them for good food, good drinks, and good times once a month! See you there!!
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Sukkot Potluck
Sat, Sept 29, 5:15 pm
The entire congregation is invited to join for a potluck in the sukkah. Register and if you can bring a dish let us know!
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Shabbat Services, Dinner, and Pride Parade
Sat, Sept 29, 5:30 pm, Tucson Jewish Museum and Holocaust Center
Join us for a pizza dinner at the TJMHC and then take part in the Tucson Pride Parade!
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Mobile Sukkah
Fri, Sept 29, 5:30 pm at the Tucson Jewish Museum and Holocaust Center
Join Kol Ami around Tucson with our mobile Sukkah. Don’t have a Sukkah in your backyard? Can’t get to synagogue during Sukkot? We’ll come to you! There will be 2-3 opportunities to catch the mobile Sukkot. Thanks to Scott Turk, Seth Ruskin and MoKA for coming up with a plan!
Find it first on Friday September 29, 5:30-7pm: as part of the Shabbat and Pride Parade celebrations at the Tucson Jewish Museum on Stone Avenue.
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Shabbat Services Including the Bat Mitzvah of Kayla Schumer
Sat, Sept 30, 10 am
Kayla Ruth Schumer will become a Bat Mitzvah on September 30th. She is the daughter of Dr. & Mrs. Corey Schumer. She is the granddaughter of Ralph and Shelly Krochmal of Tucson AZ, and Lynnda Schumer of Tucson AZ. Kayla is in 8th grade and attends Basis of Oro Valley. She is an avid athlete and loves to compete in a variety of sports such as golf, and gymnastics. Her hobbies include cooking, swimming, roller skating, and taking care of her dog, Bella. For her mitzvah project, she is making snack lunches for the homeless women and men at The Primavera Foundation.
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August Donations and Tributes
We appreciate everyone who donates to one of our funds last month. Each dollar helps keep Kol Ami providing services and events for our community. If you would like to donate or make a tribute in honor or in memory of someone, please click please click HERE.
Kol Ami General Fund
Anonymous, Board Room
Anonymous, in honor of Rowan Archer's Graduation Celebration
Anonymous, in appreciation for Simon Rosenblatt
Dinah Bear & Roger McManus
Wanda Berk, in memory of Rosalie & Leslie Gray
Jeffrey & Francine Bickart, for the audio system in the chapel
Ruth Dickstein, in honor of Simon Rosenblatt
Yetta Dritch & Don Faber, in memory of Norman and Marshall Dritch
Elissa Erly, in honor of Simon Rosenblatt
Mindy and Steve Henry, in honor of Simon Rosenblatt
Lynn and Ralph Henry, in honor of Simon Rosenblatt
Alan Herman & Rick Sours, in honor of father, mother & ex-wife
Andrew & Laurie Kassman
Jan Landau, in memory of Rosalie & Leslie Gray
John Leipsic & Debra Colodner
The Estate of Sondra March
David McCain & Helene Barab, in memory of Clark McCain
Susan Myers
George & Wendy Reiter, in honor of Simon Rosenblatt
Ruth Reiter, in honor of Simon Rosenblatt
Seth & Amy Ruskin, in honor of Simon Rosenblatt
Stephen and Jeanette Shawl, in honor of Simon Rosenblatt
Marc & Carol Weiss
Women of Kol Ami, for technology project in Simon Rosenblatt Board Room & Schlanger Chapel
Rabbi Cohen Discretionary Fund
Anonymous
Anonymous, in memory of sister
Arthur & Sharon Geiger, in memory of Dorothy Hutchinson
Marty Hagens
Debra & Jim Jacobs, in appreciation for all volunteers
Cantor Cohen Discretionary Fund
Anonymous, in honor of mother and sister
Mitzvah Corp
Peggy McConnell
Oneg Fund
Renee & Elaine Geffen, in honor of Simon Rosenblatt
ECE Fund
Elizabeth & Joseph Baker
Denise & Chuck Frenz
Amy Krauss, in memory of Harriet Krauss
Maria Porter
Desirai & Eric Svetcov
Jewish Life Long Learning Fund
The Estate of Erin Callaghan
Oneg Sponsorship
Simon Rosenblatt & Louise Greenfield, in honor of the Board installation and the dedication of the Board Room in Simon’s honor.
Dickstein Memorial Endowment
Ruth Dickstein, in honor of George and Wendy Reiter's 40th anniversary
Dana & Ira Adler
Scott Arden & Susan Brish
Pat Becker
Susan Berger
Sarah Bollt
Susan Chaikin
Sheldon Clare
Nancy Cohen
Noah Cohen
Amelia & Amy Cramer
David & Edith Flyer
Book of Remembrance
Kenneth & Marilyn Freed
Renee & Elaine Geffen
Robert & Lesley Goldfarb
Trudy Haggard
Kenneth & Mary Lou Iserson
Bonnie & Jim Jacobson
Joyce & Melvin Jaffe
Scott & Terri Krasner
Leonard & Harriet Kronman
Amy Lederman
Shelia Lepley
Alan Levenson & Rachel Goldwyn
Zandra Lindblad
Michael Mann
Stanley & Shirley Matlick
Harry & Heather McGregor
Sharon & RonaldMegdal
Joseph & Michele Millstone
Hans Donna Moser
Howard & Roberta Paley
Marcia Rosenbaum
Mark & Bari Ross
Carol Sack
Tamara Sargus & Gil Ribak
Ellen Shenkarow & Mark Raven
Paul Tuchman
Ellen Weiden & Jim Overmyer
Eileen Weizenbaum
James Whitehill & Jane Rodda
High Holidays Appeal
Dinah Bear & Roger McManus
Pat & Gary Becker
Joan & Barry Beroth
Corrine & Lew Blum
Susan Chaikin
Stefanie Clark
Nancy Cohen
Kenneth & Sharon Cohn
Judith & Ted Direnfeld
Robert & Amy Direnfeld
Patricia Eisenberg
Michael & Glenna Gibbons
Goldie & Laurence Goldstein
Janice Gutierrez
Trudy Haggard
Debra & Jim Jacobs
Andrea Kartch
Katie Klein
Nancy Koff
Marc & Nancy Lappitt
Randi & Michael Levin
Angelina Lucento
Hans & Donna Moser
Elaine Nathanson
Frances Pakenham
Trina Plies
William Rubin
Ellen Saltonstall
Sharon Schramer
Ellen Shenkarow & Mark Raven
Vivian Schwab
Sylvie Stevenson
Steven Tofel
John & Sheila Peress Velez
Ellen Weiden & Jim Overmyer
Break the Fast Fund
Dinah Bear & Roger McManus
Corrine & Lew Blum
Susan Chaikin
Nancy Cohen
Kenneth & Sharon Cohn
Ruth Dickstein
Goldie & Laurence Goldstein
Janice Gutierrez
Alan Herman & Rick Sours
Janice & Paul Lefkowitz
Angelina Lucento
Hans & Donna Moser
Elaine Nathanson
Frances Pakenham
Isaac Rothschild & Tanya Miller
Ellen Saltonstall
Sylvie Stevenson
Sharon Schramer
Vivian Schwab
Desirai & Eric Svetcov
Gary & Abby Tenen
Steven Tofel
John Velez & Sheila Peress Velez
Dan Weisz & Shelly Abell
Thank you to our Kol Ami Pillars
Chai
Anonymous
Simon Rosenblatt & Louise Greenfield
Architect
Steven Tofel
Marc & Carol Weiss
Builders
Anonymous- 6
Lenore Ballen & Howard Brown
Stephen & Heather Caine
Ruth Dickstein
Lawrence & Diana Haas
Builders cont.
Gary & Tandy Kippur
Foster & Carol Kivel
Scott & Terri Krasner
Joy Miller-Frilot
Jeffrey Rein & Mridula Aggarwal
George & Wendy Reiter
Ruth Reiter
Hershel Rozenzweig
Seth & Amy Ruskin
Ken & Beverly Sandock
Elizabeth Weiner-Shulman
Builders cont.
Rica Spivack
Lee Surwit
Carey &Deborah Turner
John Velez & Sheila Peress Velez
James Whitehill & Jane Rodda
September Anniversaries and Birthdays
Performing an act of tzedakah (giving) is a tradition commemorating a simcha, such as a birthday or an anniversary. A charitable donation to honor that special occasion is often made to one of our congregational funds. If you would like to honor one or more of these anniversaries, please click on the button. Click HERE to honor them.
Anniversaries
Michael & Nancy Apsell
Cathleen & Peter Becskehazy
Roberta & Steve Breton
Jim & Victoria Capin
Hedy Feuer & Michael Perlman
Robert & Selma Gevirtzman
David Glickenstein & Tricia Haynes
Richard Gordon & Amy Krauss
Justin & Georgina Meislin
Ken & Beverly Sandock
Carol & Charles Sumner
Leon & Lois Thikoll
Carey & Deborah Turner
Dan Weisz & Shelly Abell
Jody & John Williams
Jamie & Christian Yoder
Birthdays
Benjamin Aaron
Linda Ablin
Renee Adelstein
Evan Adelstein
Ira Adler
Joshua Arden
Miriam Arden
Barbara Atwood
Bruce Ault
Alice Baker
Hannah Baker
Max Baruch
Donna Beyer
Destiny Bickart
Sofa Bograd
Nellie Bracker
Marisa Bragoni
Benjamin Brannock
Gretchen Brittain
Joyce Brodsky
Harvey Buchsbaum
Lisa Byrnes
Natan Chait
Nurit Chait
Katherine Cohen
Michael Cohen
Rachel Cohen
Lanny Colton
Jennifer Dahnert
Rachel Dveirin
Ted Direnfeld
Yetta Dritch
Audrey Ecelbarger
Sifer Evenson
Erin Flanigan
Mitch Flatow
Jerrold Flyer
Arlo Foote
Vivian Fortunato
Denise Frenz
Beatrix Gallivan
Sharon Geiger
Mark Gilbert
Sharon Goncharsky
Cindy Goldberg
Michael Goldberg
Elsa Goldberg
Ellen Goldstein
Maxine Goldstein
William Goodman
Chloe Goorman
Michael Green
Denise Grusin
Claire Graham
Louise Greenfield
Ashlee Hall
Avey Lopez-Hanshaw
Molly Lapides-Head
Beth Horowitz
Kathleen Iverson
Rachel Jacobson
Rachel Jarrett
Elaine Jones
Fran Katz
Jay Katz
Lance Kaye
Mitchell Kagen
Dylan Kassman
Diane Kerrihard
Carol Kivel
Brenna Lacey
Bert Landau
Michael Levin
David Levin
Marlene Louchheim
Angelina Lucento
Grace Louchheim
Laurette LeVine
Valdean Levy
Ilia Lopez
Nancy Luck
Carl Mami
Lauri Marks
Shirley Matlick
Heather McGregor
Jamie Mellan
Max Menchik
Charlene Mendoza
Kilian Metcalf
Toni Miller
Erin Olitzky
Marilyn Orenstein
Kim Paskal
Jacob Peters
Maria Porter
Zoe Reeves
Morris Riback
Michael Rosenberg
Jacob Rosenblum
Norman Rosenfeld
Jenny Rothschild
Carol Sack
Rachel Sattinger
Dena Schain
Grant Schermer
Gail Schwartz
Hannah Schwindt
Ian Shalek
Andrew Shalek
Benjamin Singerman
Rick Sours
Rica Spivack
Rita Stolzenberg
Max Stolzenberg
Michelle Strier
Eric Svetcov
Kevin Trantow
Juliana Trujillo
Ariel Turner
Hanna Varady
Susan Wallach
Ward Wallingford
Samantha Weidman
Elizabeth Weintraub
Steven Zadorozny
Martin Zeldin